like…
eyes that stand out…without looking like racoon eyes (eye shadow preference?)
and natreal looking flushed lips with porcelain skin?
(not that exaggerated…ut yiu know…pale without looking ghostly)
is this look possible. remember its stage make up….so it doesnt matter if it looks waked up up close.
i am going to be wearing a baby pink gown.
my hair is dirty blonde.
pictures would be very helpful 
http://www.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/2969959/2/istockphoto_2969959-beautiful-pink-stage-makeup.jpg
thats an idea for eyeshadow..its really bright but very cool..lol
http://www.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/2969912/2/istockphoto_2969912-bright-multicolored-fashion-stage-makeup-on-woman-eye.jpg
heres another eyeshadow idea, its a little darker
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_z7PFSXqH2Vo/SIyYRFbOJqI/AAAAAAAACg8/wgLhw_w_3y8/s320/How%2Bto%2BWear%2BBlue%2BEyeshadow.jpg
one this one just look at the blush and lipstick, the eyes are very dark, and not very princessy..lol
http://www.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/3287549/2/istockphoto_3287549-golden-pink-make-up.jpg
woo hoo! another gorgeous idea for your eyes..
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_V7lJdZi_T9A/SYk-q1fxL3I/AAAAAAAALAk/3wVO60boj8A/s400/Bobbi+Brown+Blushed+Pink.jpg
heres a real pretty blush thats not overdone and still gives you a porcelian skin..
http://media.brajeshwar.com/photos/people/lipstick.jpg
is this too much of a pink for your lips? i think it would look pretty, but if its too much for the look your going for, tone it down a little with a lighter color..
i hope this helped and good luck!